Friday, January 04, 2013
I had thought that things were going well recently but today I realised all is not well for my husband. The last year has been a bit shit really, not just him losing his job but also the fact hat we just haven't been getting on. I am too snappy and let resentments build up, he gets moody and silent. I like to thrash things out while he clams up. Maybe I ned to be more direct, instead of getting net up about things I should just tell him 'do this and I won't get upset that you haven't.
So for all these reasons my jam jar is empty so far. I want us to get on better and maybe I need to start paying attention to his needs a bit more. Having a small child can make you forget to care for eachother as much as you care for your son. We both have our faults and I don't deny I need to really work on mine but we are both the bad guy at certain points.
Posted by donna bean at 12:34 AM